What does it mean to be powerless? How can admitting powerlessness give you power over the unmanageability of your life?
Spencer and Tom, joined virtually by Sara and Gerrie talk about Step 1, We admitted we were powerless over alcohol, and our lives had become unmanageable.
- Why is it difficult to admit my powerlessness?
- How do the effects of alcoholism make my life unmanageable?
- What is my “First Step story”?
- What keeps me holding on to the illusion that I have the power to change someone else?
- How do I determine I am powerless over someone else’s behavior?
- Do I accept that alcoholism is a disease? How does/did that change how I interact with the drinker?
- How do I react when others refuse to be or do as I wish?
- What would happen if I stopped trying to change others? ]
- How can I let go of others’ problems instead of trying to solve them?
- Do I say “yes” when I want to say “no”? What happens to my ability to manage my own life when I do this?
- How can admitting powerlessness lead me to new power?
- How does Step 1 help me let go of blame and shame?
- What tools do I use to find serenity when my life seems unmanageable?
Upcoming topics include another “gift of Al-Anon”. “Courage and fellowship will replace fear. We will be able to risk failure to develop new hidden talents.” Please call us at 734-707-8795 or email feedback@therecoveryshow.com with your questions or experience, strength and hope. Or just leave a comment right here.
Music from the show
Dixie Chicks: Silent House
Télépopmusik: Breathe
The Corrs: What Can I Do?