A listener wrote in with these questions.
How do I not act (or react) on the first impulsive thought or feeling? How do others sit with uncomfortable feelings? How do I act on God's will not my will? Letting time pass, a month or longer or a week or few days seems impossible when i am so anxious. How do you deal with that??
How also to know God's time as I'm a naturally impulsive person and have always done things fast. Any fear I have makes me say something I regret later or take action too soon, as i don't give myself enough time to write and meditate and breathe.
- My first thought is about the “Al-Anon pause button”. But then, the question is: “How do I remember to use it?”
- A couple of helpful slogans:
- “How important is it?” (Courage to Change, August 15)
- “First Things First” (How Al-Anon Works, Chapter 9)
- The thing: It takes practice!
- My experience with just about any “defect of character”
- First I become aware of it.
- Then, I notice it after I do it.
- After a while, I notice it while I’m doing it.
- Eventually, I’m able to notice when I’m about to do it.
- Don’t “kick myself” while I’m trying to learn a new way to be.
- Awareness, Acceptance, Action!
- How to “sit with it”. The reading from Courage to Change, January 10 about worry may be helpful.
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