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How is living with alcoholism like living with dementia? Can I use what I have learned in one, with the other?
The sermon was titled “Dancing with Dementia”. “What perfect timing!” I thought, as I was sitting down. This week I will be visiting my parents, who may or not have diagnosed dementia, but who are definitely becoming less engaged in life, and it hurts.
My brother, my sister, and I have decided to try to have “the talk” with them about aging, about whether they need help in daily living, and about whether they might consider starting to think about moving into an assisted living situation. It won’t be easy.
I also reflected on how my feelings and reactions in this situation parallel my feelings and reactions to active alcoholism, when that was happening in my life. Which brings me to the question, how can I use these tools in this new situation?
The keys seem to be these:
- Dementia is a disease, just as alcoholism is a disease.
- I can meet them where they are.
- I can live in the moment.
- I can find compassion for my loved ones.
- I can recognize and feel my grief, and have compassion for myself.
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