Forgive us that often we forgive ourselves so easily and others so hardly;
Forgive us that we expect perfection from those to whom we show none;
Forgive us for repelling people by the way we set a good example;
Forgive us the folly of trying to improve a friend;
Forbid that we should use our little idea of goodness as a spear to wound those who are different;
Forbid that we should feel superior to others when we are only more shielded;
And may we encourage the secret struggle of every person.
— Vivian Pomeroy
A meditation for December 9, 2012.
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Very little grows on jagged rock.
Be ground, be crumbled.
Wildflowers will come up where you are.
A meditation for December 8, 2012
So sick of who I was becoming
Yeah, tired of running
Time to look at the man in the mirror until I can learn to love him
Make the money, don't let the money make you
Change the game, don't let the game change you
I'll forever remain faithful
All my people stay true
Macklemore – Make the Money
This speaks to me of knowing who I really am, why I really do what I do. Of the ways in which the program has brought me to see myself just as I am, and to love myself for who I am, not for what I do. What does it say to you?
A meditation for December 7, 2012
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And I've been a fool and I've been blind
I can never leave the past behind
I can see no way, I can see no way
I'm always dragging that horse around
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off, oh whoa
Florence and the Machine — Shake it Out
When I continue to carry the past with me, when I keep on dragging that horse, and when the devil is still on my back, I cannot dance. I cannot find serenity.
My recovery includes shedding the burdens of the past, letting go of old resentments, forgiving the hurts done to me by others and amending the hurts I did. Only then can I shake the devil off my back.
A meditation for December 6, 2012.
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