Are you finding it difficult to be patient? How are you tolerant of a world that isn’t going the way you want it to go?
- Tolerance is a personality trait. It reflects an attitude of open-mindedness, an acceptance of the behavior, beliefs and values of other. It is a term that is associated with psychological resilience which arises from the ability to tolerate stress of various forms without negative consequences.
- Patience is the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset.
- Eric's acronym PISO: pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. (He used to write it on his hand.) Patience and tolerance may be an antidote for suffering.
- As usual, we spend some time sharing how the negatives appear in our lives: impatience, intolerance, lack of restraint, and an “imaginary sense of hurry”.
- Eric's HP has a sense of humor, giving him impatiens flowers for his window box, when he needed to be reminded about patience.
- How do we cultivate patience and tolerance?
- Reminders from our slogans and sayings:
- How important is it?
- One day at a time
- Is it worth my serenity?
- WAIT – Why am I talking?
- Live and let live
- Easy does it
- LOVE – Let others voluntarily evolve.
- We played out a scene from Kung Fu where “young grasshopper” is schooled about being fully present.
- As usual, we have some quotes
- Be not afraid of growing slowly. Be afraid of standing still. Chinese saying
- Patience is the key to paradise. Turkish proverb
- If you understand, things are just as they are. If you don’t understand, things are just as they are. Zen Koan
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